Daniela's Story

My name is Daniela, I am 27 years old and I was first diagnosed with endometriosis and adenomyosis in June 2020.

I first started noticing symptoms of endometriosis in 2012. Painful urination, excruciatingly painful periods and sexual contact was extremely painful. At the time I had no knowledge about sexual health and went to my local clinic to check whether I was dealing with an STI which brought feelings of shame. This was not helped by the judgement I felt from the clinician dealing with someone of my age. With the symptoms I was dealing with I was so scared and was relieved to receive my results back as ‘all clear’ but still had no answers to what I was experiencing.

A few months went by and the pain was no better, so I decided to go the GP. Due to the nature of my symptoms I was granted a smear test. Unfortunately, my results showed abnormalities and I had to do another smear to ensure everything was okay. I received the all-clear for HPV upon another smear but still had no answers. I just convinced myself that it was normal for everyone to have this pain.

All this for a 16 year old was incredibly challenging. I’m usually very private and to have all these clinicians looking ‘down there’ made me incredibly self-conscious.

Fast forward to December 2019 I was at work and suddenly a rush of pain spread across my abdomen and I had to go straight to the hospital. I was completely distraught and frightened. I went to A&E as they suspected I could have has an ovarian cyst burst. The clinician told me ‘I would suggest you speak to your GP about endometriosis’ I was befuddled. I had never even heard of endometriosis. She was the guiding light that led to my diagnosis. I’m still so grateful to her until this day.

Following this, my GP signposted me to the Endometriosis Clinic in my local area and within 4 months I was sent the letter for a diagnostic laparoscopy. Unfortunately, the pandemic hit the week I was due surgery and everything shut down. My health anxiety was overwhelming and became insufferable during covid. I was up all night googling my symptoms and even reaching out to the Samaritans as my fear had dominated my whole existence.

In June 2020 I was diagnosed with endometriosis and adenomyosis and I felt validated knowing that my symptoms were not ‘all in my head’. My left ovary was fused to the side of my womb and my fallopian tubes were covered with endometriosis. My consultant and I came up with a plan for management.

For 6-8 months things were better after surgery but then the symptoms came back worse. Over the course of 3 years, we experimented with different hormone treatments. After a multitude of attempts at hormone treatments, I had to really beg and advocate for a second surgery and I’m glad I did. I had my second surgery in September 2023.

Endometriosis UK have really informed me about endometriosis and I was signposted by one of my clinicians. I found the information so easy to read and really prepared me with those questions to equip me for appointments as it’s quite intimidating having to advocate for yourself.

To all fighting endometriosis: Your struggles are valid, and you're not alone. Keep advocating for yourself, use a symptom diary and seek second opinions if needed. You deserve understanding and relief. 

Daniela’s story highlights the urgent need for faster diagnosis and improved understanding of endometriosis.

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